Whether it is daytime or night game, a business meeting or wild party, what trumps all situations to attract women surrounding you depends on how you project yourself with the right release of ‘atmospheric aura.’
This is the process of naturally getting everyone within proximity to bask in your glow, relish in your presence, and enjoy your company. And that’s how you maintain the right connection to any soul on the spot.
The looming question is, how do you do it? If you’d like to know how to get a girl to like you at a party, here are 5 quick timeless dating tips for guys. Start commanding an attractive atmospheric aura — which is exactly what women want in a man.
1. Don’t behave like other guys on the scene. This tip alone will attract a woman dead easily. Your goal is to simply have fun and be recognized as a ‘fun person’ to talk to. Wipe out any intentions of getting stupidly drunk, bidding on one-night stands, or simply getting laid.
This will quickly distinguish you from the hordes of horny dogs in the room. I call this the process of reversing or quenching your insatiable-self. Kill your usual cravings and they’ll eventually come to you by default.
2. Find someone to socialize and chat up with. Don’t just sit by your lonesome and appear anti-social or friend-phobic. When attending any small or large-scale parties, a great place for chatter is where the finger foods and drinks are.
You can always ask the people around you how the food taste, what the special picks on the menu tonight are, what their opinion on their drinks is etc.
Whatever it is, get socially active, and you might just get sexually active after the party.
3. Be sneakily attentive. As you’re chatting away with your friend or soon-to-be companion, observe the scene always. This is the period where you absorb the premise, and familiarize your mind with everything that’s currently happening.
When you’ve mentally settled down at any kind of event, you will perform with higher competence through territorial adaptation.
Then, just ask your self, which woman do you think has potential? What situational openers can you approach her with? You have home court advantage now, so make your move.
Note: Start seeing yourself approaching and building a healthy rapport with her in your head before you actually do it. Visualize it all happening so your brain and body will perform more favorably without failing or disappointing you. By the way, stick to one girl only, and follow up unless you really have no interest in her afterward.
4. Self-Presentation. Dress smart. No, not pimp-slick, overtly formal, or shoddily. Your whole aura should convey eloquence, positivity, and absolute fun. If you want to know how to get a girl to like you in a party, your self-presentation should never be overlooked.
Don’t be too stiff and pose in the corner like a tree with your drink half empty in hand; relax, let your guard down for once, and be immersed in the moment. An alpha male body language would formless, flexible, and free. For those of you brainwashed into peacocking,. If that’s your resort, then do so subtly. No need for publicity stunting either.
5. Be moderate. Your goal is to attract women, not show off your talent or skill. Shelve away your entire pick up routines. A party is a social event, meaning that you should get social with the people around you, not breed a burning motive to unbuckle the bra straps off every woman’s back.
Be friendly to everyone, and don’t just talk to people you’re only interested in. The alpha male would set a great long lasting impression for himself, and have the girls gossiping about him the morning after. Attracting girls was never meant to be a grueling task; most men just try too hard and wind up with fruitless results.
Bonus tip on how to get a girl to like you in a party…
Make yourself look like a party host. This is very easy to manage. All you have to do is greet people around and ask them whether they are enjoying the party.
Stop trying so hard to attract women. Put yourself in the shoes of an event organizer or host — what would they do? Things will naturally fall into place.
Also, no one will take you as an offensive intruder, and you’ll get a chance to expand your personal network by the end of the night.
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